I Thought I Was “Awake” Until This Happened To Me.
I was about 17 years old when I first went down the deep and dark internet rabbit hole of conspiracy theories, aliens and all things “New Age.” I’m talking really fringy topics ranging from extraterrestrials communicating with the earth, to our debt-based money system calling for a mass revolution! I’ve never been the same since. Now some of you might be thinking, “Right, that’s when she lost her mind!” But to my homies who have binged through these documentaries and youtube videos with me… you will understand when I say that within this maze of alternative media; I still was able to find gems of truth that reminded me that there was more to life than what I’d been told. That I wasn’t “broken” just because I was a misfit or had talents that weren’t valued in school. That maybe it is society that is broken… and that I could help transform it.
I am now 26 years old and a lot more grounded, yet I still stand by this belief. I still feel deep within my bones that we are in the midst of a mass consciousness shift where the status quo is rapidly losing credibility. I still believe that a world where we destroy the earth for profit and hoard wealth while others starve is unnecessary. I still believe I am here to shake things up and make a change. Yet I also believe that the whole new age / conspiracy whirlwind of information out there may be slowing down the very same personal and collective evolution it promotes.
“I can stand here and talk to you about the field of infinite possibilities, but what do you DO with that?” – Dan Millman
New Age & Conspiracy Information: Distracting Us From Our True Power And Purpose?
Don’t get me wrong. In no way do I want to discredit the value in information that helps highlight society’s ills and open the mind to new possibilities. It has been a crucial part of my own path… but one that I had to outgrow in order for me to truly grow up.
Let me explain. Learning about the latest government scheme, astrology forecast and health craze has its place, but ultimately; it is not the thing that will MAKE you a better human being. It is not the thing that makes you a more caring and loving person, or bring you strength, spirit and resiliency in challenging times. Dissecting the subject of quantum physics, knowing the names and colors of all your chakras, or scrutinizing a politician’s every move won’t necessarily help you contribute positively to the world, or bring you the focus and practical wisdom needed to get your life together. Information lives in your head. It is the quality of your being that determines how well you participate in the dance of life.
“Ultimately, information is as valuable as its usefulness to our daily lives.” – UpliftedLife
A Friend And Mentor Who Taught Me To Embrace The Basics
Ideas, words and concepts are everywhere, flooding our newsfeeds on a second-to-second basis. The trick is to ask ourselves: can I put this information to good use? Will this benefit my life? Can this help me grow into the best version of myself if I apply it? Will obsessing about the “evil powers that be” help you step into your own power? Will wearing a flower of life pendant and waving crystal wands really make you kinder?
My dear friend and mentor Kosta Stoyanoff, the founder of Uplifted Life, continually reminded me of this ever since I met him back in 2015. He would also remind me that all the inspiring quotes I post on Facebook or truths I intellectually understand will never replace the value of even the tiniest and seemingly ordinary steps I can take within my own life. Things like eating a meal slowly, being grateful for what I have, taking more deep breaths throughout the day, being attentive and caring to my wonderful mother, and taking more time to really be there for the “little things” in life.
He would tell me that these small humbling shifts in my attention, perspective, thoughts and attitude would not only add up to a HUGE shift in my health, abundance and happiness levels, but would become the solid foundation on which I could begin doing truly meaningful work from a space of love rather than ego.
“The beginnings of all great things are small.” – Cicero
Now you’d think Kosta’s loving advice made it easy for me to commit to making those fundamental shifts. But the truth is, I wasn’t ready. I couldn’t slow down my monkey mind just yet. Although I nodded in agreement, my ego squirmed at the idea and I instead spent about one more year searching for more. For something “bigger”, more glamorous and revolutionary than simply getting in touch with “ordinary life”…
I thought I needed to spend more time digging into childhood traumas and past lives to justify my wounds. I still searched for miracle supplements that would fix the health issues I was experiencing. I got involved in ambitious projects that I believed would change the world… without me having to change. I searched for everything and anything except what would bring me face to face with my own power and responsibility to transform from the inside out.
At the end of that year, I was more confused and disillusioned than ever before. My health had plummeted. My stress levels were still high. I was everything but at peace with myself—even after all the dizzying “self-work” I thought I was doing. That’s when I reached out to my good ol’ trusty friend Kosta again and said “I finally get it. I am ready to go back to the basics.“
“You don’t truly understand something until you apply it. Same goes for wisdom.” – UpliftedLife
When I Finally Began To Walk The Talk
Little-by-little, I began contemplating the ways in which I lived my life. I noticed just how much of my attention was fragmented in dozens of useless places—from ingenuine relationships to mindless smartphone usage. I began observing how often I would engage in defeatist self-talk despite all my “positive” Facebook posts. I saw how my mind would create an abundance of stories about what’s “missing” in my life, while ignoring the wonderful blessings all around me. And finally, I realized that the same amount of power, belief and attention I put in negative thought patterns, I could instead use to fuel more positive perspectives and beneficial day-to-day habits. It sure sounds simple, and it is! But it seems like for most of us, the challenge of a lifetime is to let go of our attachment to an old story of self that gets in the way of us remembering and applying the most basic of truths.
“It is easy to think about complex things, but often difficult to apply the simplest things. The former can be entertaining, but the latter is where we get to grow and transform our lives.” – UpliftedLife
It’s Not About You
We think that “self-development” is all about getting our own lives straight. And yes, that’s a wonderful benefit! but the real beauty in becoming the best version of ourselves is how it positively impacts the lives of those around us. Whether you are a stay-at-home Mom, serve coffee for a living or are CEO of a company; evolving into your highest, most loving and kindest self is no small feat. It means children who will grow up to be wiser and more loving citizens of earth. It means customers who will go back to their workspaces and families with a lighter heart. It means companies who will shift from self-serving motives to a greater purpose.
This is why going back to the basics is more than just a “cute thought”. When applied and embodied, they change your life. And when millions live by them, they change the world.
“Whether you accept it or not, each life is linked to all life. Your state of being, thoughts, words and actions create a ripple effect; much like a stone thrown into a pond. The quality of that ripple effect… is your legacy.” – Kosta Stoyanoff
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Great article, this along with your most recent writing on CE, “11 ways to raise consciousness” I think it was called, have really changed my outlook. Like you were at one time I have been lost in looking for answers and something bigger when it comes to my awakening. I have neglected what we really matters. By obsessing over my chronic health condition and what new career path to take I have forgotten the smaller things in my life. Thank you so much for doing what your doing. It has really helped me realise what I need to do. Mark
Was like reading about my own journey … thanks for this … <3
Highly descriptive article, I enjoyed that a lot. Will there be a part 2?
So much needed to read this. Thank you.